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Thursday 31 May 2012

there is no anesthesia for a broken heart

i am sure at some point we all  got rejected, hurt, dumped or cheated on. in short, we got our hearts broken.

the one that you love not necessarily loves you back but at times there a few blessed souls who do not have to take the complicated path and they find their other half.
Despite knowing the consequences of the game called love, all of us dream and yearn for it.

i have been in a relationship which did give me some good and bad memories. being naive and so young, i believed he was the ONE, he was my happily ever after but right now i am full with doubts.
i realized, men have the habit of not meaning what they say. ( yes, they are not so mature in this department)
I LOVE YOU just becomes a phrase to be close to someone.
many fail to realize the after effects of cheating and lying and how much it hurts your partner. after all there is no anesthesia for a broken heart. the grief, humiliation and fear of being cheated  is not something that can be taken lightly.
i am still learning how to deal with the pain.

but i know,

at the end of the day our life is all about choices, many a hearts trampled for better or worse.
loving is all about letting go and forgiveness. and know that these trying times will only make us stronger as we grow.believe there is light at the end of the tunnel, there is rainbow after the rain and every cloud has a silver lining. with time and lots of grief, you will eventually find the good in goodbye.
A heartbreak is a blessing from God. its just his way of letting us realize he saved us from the wrong one.




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